The Once Upon Us blog
Help for the little hard parts.
Hitting, sharing, big feelings, bedtime, the potty, a new baby. What to say in the moment, what the research says, and a short illustrated story you can borrow tonight.
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Gentle hands
Gentle hands: how to stop a toddler from hitting
Why toddlers hit, what to say in the moment, and how to practice gentle hands when everyone is calm and at bedtime. Scripts for ages 2 to 4, with sources.
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Bedtime routine
A toddler bedtime routine that actually ends in sleep
A toddler bedtime routine for ages 2 to 4: which steps, in what order, how long it takes, what to say when they stall, and why the book goes last.
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AI stories
AI bedtime stories and personalized books: what to check first
Before you upload your child's photo to an AI bedtime story app or a personalized book, check where the photos go, who sees them, and how it reads at bedtime.
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Kind to your sibling
Big sister and big brother books for toddlers expecting a new baby
Eleven big sister and big brother books for 2- to 4-year-olds, sorted by when to read them, plus how to prepare a toddler for the baby and what to expect after.
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Sharing
How to teach a toddler to share (start with taking turns)
Sharing skills usually arrive around 3½ to 4. What to expect at 2, what to say during toy fights, how turns and timers help, and books about sharing.
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Being brave
How to write a social story for your toddler (with an example)
What a social story is, how to write one for a 2- to 4-year-old in six steps, the sentence types that matter, and a full example about the dentist.
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Trying new foods
Picky eater books and a no-pressure plan for toddlers
Ten picture books about trying new foods, plus what helps a picky toddler: tiny repeated tastes, no pressure, one safe food, and when to call the doctor.
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Potty time
The best potty training books for toddlers, and how to use them
Eleven potty training books toddlers ask for again and again, sorted by what each one is good for, plus when to start reading them and how to avoid pressure.
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Bedtime routine
Three short bedtime stories for 2- and 3-year-olds
Three original bedtime stories for toddlers, each about two minutes read aloud, plus what makes a good bedtime story for a 2- or 3-year-old and how to read it.
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Using words for big feelings
Toddler big feelings: tantrums, and teaching words for them
Tantrums are most common between 1 and 3. How to stay steady, name the feeling, hold the limit, and build your toddler's feelings words with books and stories.
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